Surprise, surprise

And still the surprises keep coming this year!

Some unexpected news at work meaning opportunities and challenge. Great to look holistically at situations.

Watching our children grow into the adults they have become is awesome.

We have caught up with good friends this week, where laughter and food have been plentifully enjoyed.

Good news quite often appears from out of the blue, and all the sweeter because of that.

So many things to look forward to this year!

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2018 so far

The year is only 14 days old and it has brought surprises aplenty and excitement too!

A visit to reacquaint my parents with Marion, my second mother in law, after, we guess, 8 1/2 years.

Bouts of “Aussie” flu for me, Kevin and joe!

The decorations came down last week and this past week has certainly been an eventful one.

The space where the tree once was!

Late nights last week culminating in a trip to the Barbican to see RSC Antony and Cleopatra – absolutely brilliant, and Wagamama’s before a real treat!

Today I attended the Christening of Lucas Sydney Robert Pope, and watched as Georgina and Jay accepted the task of being two of his Godparents.

Lovely service, although the Church was freezing❄️❄️

Home and time for some chores, Malaysian curry for dinner and time spent with a recovering Joe and Georgina.

A lovely bottle of red from the Bolney Estate in Sussex and all is well! Plus I made a new friend today if the furry variety. 💕💕

January was supposed to be a quiet month, but with so much going on I don’t think I have a rest until 3rd February, but I wouldn’t have it any other way!

Happy New Year!

2017

This last year has been well documented by me, but I will post a few photos here too!

As is the way, there has been highs (many) and lows (few), but that is life. How we cope with the lows is the important thing, with support of family and friends.

Reading through my blogs for this year has brought many a smile to my face and I hope that 2018 has as many wonderful moments!

There are three weddings to attend: Kevin is starting to feel all aquiver with the thought of outfits, shoes etc ( for me 😉). Exciting times!

Parkrun will continue as I try to improve my fitness and health.

Perhaps 2018 should have more spontaneity and less planned things, we shall see….

Andrew and Lis are over in April, and that will provide early celebrations for 30th (Andrew) and 60th (Kevin) birthdays 🎂

I wish everyone a great New Year full of what makes you happy, today, tomorrow, forever xxx

And back to work

Today I arrived at my desk at 7:15. My desk was remarkably uncluttered, so that was a positive.

Emails,signing and seeing colleagues proved a bit of a curate’s egg.

Yesterday was not good as I felt lethargic and off kilter. I have been anxious about returning to work and that is how it was manifesting itself.

There are only 13 working days left for this year and with a renewed positivity, I’m sure I can reach that milestone!

I will have the memories of last month to sustain me and also to remind me what working affords me to do.

There have already been colleagues at my door, but that is for next week, and I have had to offer comfort where needed, and that won’t stop🤔🤗

Where did last week go..

Last week was half term, although I was in school for a few days.

I relish the solitude and opportunity to work uninterrupted. You achieve so much and it’s also great to take stock, tidy up my desk and do filing.

Progress to finish the sixth form block is slow, but should be complete to handover soon!

It was also a week of catching up with friends, a thought provoking play and a family dinner, with some belly dancing to boot!

Oh and I made 28 Christmas cards too.

I now have to get in gear for Australia, with much to sort out: have we printed everything we need, washing, clothes, there is a list to cross off!

I had so much fun, and this week will be full of updating, chasing and trying to reassure that all is in place. We also have fireworks and a certain little lady’s birthday to celebrate!

Two weeks in

Well that's two weeks of the Academic year gone

Time just goes so quickly. The start is always frenetic, but this year with the sixth form building project 5 weeks overdue, and possibly another 5 week delay, it's even more so.
Balls in the air trying to ensure all is in place, whilst preparing for a HR audit, a GDPR audit and the ICE visit.

Satisfyingly, things are taking shape, and I feel a real sense of pride. I have had such great support from a Governor, who has been with me every step of the way: we had a shared vision and it has been a delight!

Today provided another boost to my mood with a visit to a brand designer. It is such a fillip to meet people so energised, so full of ideas, a passion for change and to feel 'yes, that hits the nail on the head'!

I walked back to work from the meeting, full of hope, it was a lovely sunny morning, and a dear colleague, celebrating her birthday, had left a cupcake on my desk

Yummy!

We have student art work on the walls and this is being updated and I particularly like one which is in the style of Katherine Jebb. So wonderful to enjoy their talents and achievements.

All in all a great start and long may the positivity remain!

So long, farewell, Auf Wiedersehen, adieu……..

Today sees the end of the academic year, with still so much to do over the coming weeks in preparation for another. 

My desk was covered in piles of work,  with staff to interview, July payroll to be checked, negotiating leases and a myriad of other things to do.


We had twelve staff either retiring, leaving for pastures new or to enjoy motherhood, and with that the obligatory presentations, speeches and tears.

So, as I reflect on the last year, it made me think about what makes people feel valued?


In my humble opinion, and it is purely that, it is:

Good communication, listening, and having appreciation shown. 

Quite often it is the simple things that can provide the biggest fillip; a thankyou for a job well done, to feel part of something, a smile and showing an interest.

So much can be achieved through common endeavour, seeing the bigger picture and the benefits that change and acceptance can bring.

I have a full diary over the next six weeks, both with work and socially I will enjoy time with family and friends, good food and wine. I hope the sun shines, and traffic is kind with journeys to be made.

I hope to find peace and joy to refresh me and to be ready to face the challenges that I will have to face.

so adieu, adieu, to yieu, and yieu, and yieu!

💕💕💕💕☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️